When a dis-connect
happens in a relationship,
it's important
to re-connect immediately, or as soon as possible.
Remember: we are
not our behaviors...
be honest &
loving about foolish things said or done & together,
learn from the
unconscious mind.
What it's telling
us, is the path of our healing.
Re-connections
happen naturally when we want to grow
more than want
to be "right".
Serious problems
happen in a relationship,
as we dis-connect
without re-connecting again & again.
The longer
we wait to re-connect again
& how often
it happens, tells us where we're at.
If we intend to
heal the relationship, especially
if we plan to go
our separate ways...
loving communication
is key.
If we do go separate
ways without healing the relationship first,
we'll just play
out the same situation again with another person (or persons)
until we get whatever
we need to learn.
It's all about
growth, that's why we're here.