A fun transparenting exercise:
Write your life as a movie..
Ever meet someone new and observe how you tell the same old story of your life?
Next time you meet someone new.. watch yourself doing it.
How does it feel?

Doing the same thing and expecting different results is what is keeps us stuck.

So how do we get unstuck?

You need to come to a place in your life when you say
enough!
Enough pain, enough of the same patterns, enough..& then it's time to say:

"I stand before myself  recognizing the need to re-write
the story of my life… not the events, but how I see them."

Do you usually play "the victim" caring for other's needs -
while you avoid your own?
Do you usually play "the rebel" who feel they are forced
to look after your needs by grabbing for them?

The "victim" is sensitive and the "rebel" does their best to follow their heart..
and we need both to be happy.
Yet we need to be balanced in how we go about it -
for the good of all concerned (including ourselves)
and with enough guts to go out there and create our happiness.
That when we become "the hero" who rises to the occasion and creates a happy ending.

Now you can write your life story with many different versions and
keep updating it as you grow, with many different perspectives & angles.

You can write it in several ways.  Start with just writing it.
You can edit it as much as you like over time.
After you write it... most people spend a lot of time cutting it down to just the highlights.
Usually a 5 min. monologue is all new people can take -
of just the most important highlights of your life.

To be a good story It has to lead up to now and therefore needs to be framed with all the events that helped you to become the amazing person that you are now.

My Life Story

Your life story on this side, as you now tell it, 
to others when you first meet,
or just to yourself. 
Then, edit  the story into one sentence descriptions
of each big thing that's happened.. 
that changed something deeply about you.
      On the other side, what kind of "spin" do you want your story to have?as
         It could be written as a Comedy
if you want to create more humor in your life
        an adventure
if want to create more adventure
    a romance
if you want want to create more romance 
& a mystery
if you want to create  being more mysterious 

 

 You have full permission to re-invent yourself into who you would like to be..
Remember you are the hero of your movie.. you're the star - yet you are not a diva..

Your the kind of star that everyone wants to work with..
one who everyone wants to be around.
who remains humble and kind as they receive love and admiration and is able to offer it right back to those who give it.. graciously.
Can you dig it? I knew that you could!