However,
remember that there are Twinflames and there are Soulmates.
Both are meaningful relationships and teach us to grow, but in different ways.
Soulmates compliment us, they are in many ways our opposites...
they can become easily codependent because each one completes the other.
However, the lesson of soulmates is to both become whole people through a
respectful love, plenty of understanding and an honest focus on growth.
Then,
we can be involved in an everexpanding interdependent relationship of Soulmates..
Remember: the releationship is the space in between you both and must be protected
by both of you. Nurture it, and if someone hurts their lover, it's best
to also appologize to the relationship as well as the person who got hurt.
(Children are the physical form of this truth.)
Twinflames are just like us in so many ways, we think,
and act so similarly and the rhythym of our lives, no matter how different
the specifics are, is still very much going in the same patterns of lessons.
Twinflames come into our lives to show us who we are
by mirroring us, there may be some competition between the two, which may
even serve the growth of both... until it doesn't.
(This is probalby more common is extra marital affairs when the person has
lost who they are in the relationship, and a twin flame comes along to remind
them who they are again.)
Have no judgment of who we draw into our lives...
offer kindness, recieve the blessings of our growth from facing our deepest
part of ourselves through another and be honest with kindness. If we really
grow, the upgrade (either the same person also upgraded through the growth
you've both shared, or someone new who matches better who you are now) will
be drawn to you if you keep focusing on growth and what's best for all concerned.
Let love help us to find our way through... letting us see who we are by who
we draw in
(friends as well) and that we may all be made better because of having
shared love,
for that is surely why we are here.
